My girlfriend has anger problems and i normally let our arguments go but this time its different, i need help?

I have anger issues and yeah when my boyfriend and I fight I get pretty into it and cuss. But I know how to control myself to a point so I never say anything too mean because i know its not worth losing my boyfriend over my anger issues. Your girlfriend has no respect for you along with thinking she can control you. This is more then anger issues. She wants things to be 'her way' and if its not she'll be mean to you to get what she wants because she knows she can get under your skin. So trust me you're not dealing with anger issues you're dealing with immaturity. If you two were deeply in love she wouldn't have an ex on the side and HANGING out with him. Its pretty much like whenever you don't give her what she wants she'll constantly get you back by making you mad and seeing if her ex will give her what she wants and bounce back and forth. Do you really want to deal with that for the rest of your life? This girl has issues in her life and needs to grow up I'm sure you won't agree with me on this but its the truth. This will constantly keep happening to you along with this pain if you continue to stay with this girl, and it seems as if you have to compete for your OWN girlfriend. I'd find a new one. Good luck.